How to handle an intimidating woman
Accepting full responsibility for your feelings is one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself.It lets you take control and simplifies life enormously.It’s a built in avoidance technique that I am about to take issue with, but trust me, it’s not personal. That scary person gets their power to jerk you around and take control from one source and one source only. If you didn’t give it to them, they would be powerless.They simply cannot intimidate you or make you feel insecure without your permission.Do they belittle you, or embarrass you in front of others.
This is because we fear being rejected or losing the relationship, she said.
Think about it for a moment, how hard do you work at avoiding that person?
Now ask yourself this simple question: There is always some core reason for such strong feelings.
Eliminate phrases from your vocabulary like “they made me feel so…” Instead, try saying “I chose to feel…” Allow yourself to get accustomed to the idea of being in control.
Remind yourself that you can choose not to participate in someone else’s emotional game, and then stay out of it.